Once you have some decisions made, travel and lodging booked, activities in mind, attire and gear picked out—it's time to put everything together and plan out the timeline of your day (or multiple days). This is where your elopement or intimate wedding experience starts to feel super real as you see your vision coming together into a seamless, exciting plan. Don’t worry—it’s not about scheduling out every minute of your day, but rather making sure that you have time for everything you want to do, see, and experience together—leaving room for spontaneity and relaxation.
This is where it all starts to feel real—like really real.
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CRAFT YOUR TIMELINE
How much coverage is enough?
When planning out the timeline for your elopement day (or days), you might be wondering, how much of it should you have documented by me?
Want my honest opinion?
Well here it is: Your day deserves just as much documentation as anyone else getting married—and maybe even more.
Why? Well, here are three reasons. While sometimes people think an elopement is just saying your vows and spending an hour or two taking portraits—the day you get married is so much more than that. Your wedding day is going to be the day you remember every year on your anniversary for the rest of your life together—and everything that happened that day from sun up to sun down is a part of your experience. Couples having big weddings get the entire story of their day documented, so why shouldn't you?
If you're spending all of this time intentionally planning the absolute best, most authentic experience for you and your partner—don't you want to be able to relive all of it and remember it precisely, in full-color detail? If you’re not having as many people attend your event in-person, the photos of your day are truly the only way to share your experience with others—don’t you want to be able to do that?
I honestly have never photographed an elopement that I thought the couple had me there for too long—but there have been countless days that I wish I could have documented a fuller picture of how awesome their entire experience was.
So when deciding how much of your day to have me along for—remember that just because I’m there doesn’t mean that it’s going to feel like an all-day photoshoot. I’m there to melt into the background, to make sure you have the best experience possible, and to just document you two having the time of your life.
Sunrise vs Sunset
One big decision when it comes to creating a timeline for your wedding timeline is what time of day you want to have your ceremony and have your couples portraits taken. Sunrise and sunset are favorite times among photographers to take pictures because of the golden lighting and vibrant colors that are caused by the sun being low in the sky. In sunny climates, midday sunlight can create harsh under-eye shadows, which is why the middle of the day is when I usually recommend doing indoor photos, getting ready photos, traveling or hiking, doing activities, or hanging out and relaxing.
BENEFITS OF ELOPING AT SUNRISE
Can be more secluded
If you are concerned about how much privacy you are going to have while you are saying your vows to your partner, then a sunrise elopement or intimate wedding might be a good idea—especially if you choose a heavily-trafficked or well-known area.
Potentially better weather
This is entirely region-dependent, but some areas regularly forecast rain more frequently in the afternoon which means that a sunrise elopement increases your chances of clear skies. If you're eloping in a hot climate or wanting to hike, going for sunrise can also mean cooler temperatures and less sweating.
"Alpenglow" on east-facing locations
If you're eloping in a mountainous region on a clear day, if the main dramatic view faces east, sunrise is ideal because it means that the sunlight will hit that view first—causing the mountains to glow with gorgeous pink, orange, and yellow colors. It's a great way to start your day Starting early and having your elopement or intimate wedding ceremony right at sunrise is an incredible way to start out your wedding day. It also gives you plenty of time to relax for the rest of your day and enjoy any other activities that you and your partner want to do.
BENEFITS OF ELOPING AT SUNSET
Can be secluded
In the evening, most people, whether they are tourists or locals, tend to return home or wherever they are staying to have dinner, which means that many locations become less busy at sunset. So similar to sunrise, you can get privacy if you say your vows toward sunset. However, this doesn't hold true for every location, as some spots are particularly known for their sunsets.
You can sleep in
If you decide to do your elopement ceremony at sunset, then you will have more flexibility regarding what time you wake up and be able to get ready in the daylight. If you know that you are not a morning person, you’ll want to keep in mind that a sunrise elopement could potentially leave you groggy and tired on your wedding day—so you may want to seriously consider the benefits of a sunset elopement instead.
Great light for west-facing views
If you are wanting to say your vows with a beautiful west-facing view behind you, then eloping at sunset means that the sun’s final rays will be hitting the features behind you—and if the view behind you includes mountains to the west, then they will be illuminated with alpenglow towards sunset on a clear day.
You'll be all warmed up
It can take some people a bit of time to get comfortable being photographed, and your awareness of me as your photographer will likely be greatest at the beginning of our time together. A benefit of eloping at sunset is that we will probably have already spent a good chunk of the day together, which means that you will have had time to get more comfortable with having a camera pointed at you—especially right before you say your vows to your partner, which many couples consider to be the most intimate part of an elopement day.
You can also do both!
It’s also always an option to do a full-day elopement that spans sunrise to sunset or a multi-day elopement where you get to experience both as well.
The getting ready portion of the day is one of my favorite times of the day to document! During these moments, the excitement is high and things are starting to feel so real. The day you’ve waited so long for is finally coming together, and you’re about to marry your best friend! Including this portion of the day into your photo coverage really helps weave together a complete story of your wedding experience. It’s also a helpful way to start getting warmed up to the camera and a great time for me to document your important wedding details.
I recommend starting your day off in a relaxed manner, waking up with plenty of time to get ready so that you can feel really prepared, be present, and just soak in the excitement before heading off to the first location.
During this time, I will photograph all of your special wedding details that you’ve put so much time and effort into. It’s helpful to have all of these details ready and laid out in advance. I recommend doing this the day before so you have one less thing on your mind day-of. Typically these details will include your wedding attire, rings, jewelry, vow books, florals, family heirlooms, invitations or announcements, etc. This is also a great time to give your partner any special gifts.
Getting Ready
Why getting ready & details photos matter
Some couples choose to get ready separately, especially if they’ve kept their wedding attire a surprise from each other or plan to do a first look. If you get ready separately, it’s helpful to choose getting ready locations that are close to one another, and even better if you can get ready in nearby rooms at the same home. A lovely thought if you chose to get ready separately is that I will be able to photograph a unique glimpse into your partner's experience that you wouldn’t see otherwise.
Other couples choose to get ready together. This enables you to spend the entirety of your wedding day together. Some of the sweetest photo opportunities include sharing a mirror as you fix your hair, zipping your partner up into their wedding dress, tying a bow tie, or lacing up boots for each other. There is no wrong way to do this, it’s all up to you and how you envision your day panning out!
You could even choose a combination of the two! Start your day off snuggled in your pjs, making breakfast together, and enjoying it in bed or on the deck of your Airbnb with a view. Then when it comes time to get dressed in your wedding attire, you can choose to keep that portion of the getting ready process a surprise.
Will you get ready together or separately?
While choosing your lodging and getting ready location, keep in mind the aesthetics, and look for lodging that fits the general vibe you’re going for. It’s best to keep the rooms you are getting ready in neat and do any necessary tidying up the day before. Try to pick up any loose clothing on the floor, move any luggage or miscellaneous items to one side of the room or out of the rooms altogether. This will allow me to candidly photograph you two without any clutter or distractions in the frame. It will also create a more calm and peaceful environment for you to get ready in.
When searching for photogenic places to stay, here are a few things to keep in mind:
Always look for a nice, clean, calm, and open space
The more natural window light, the better
The less busy and distracting the space and decor is, the better
Consider the general aesthetics and decor—do they match the vibe you’re going for?
Once I arrive, I may do some slight rearranging depending on lighting scenario, but don’t worry, I’ll put everything back in its place for you when we wrap up!
Amazing & heartfelt moments to incorporate into your getting ready photos:
Copying your vows into your vow books
Writing and reading each other love notes
Giving a gift to your partner
Reading letters from family or friends
Facetiming with loved ones who are not present
Reading love notes or cards from early on in your relationship
Framed photos set up of loved ones who have passed
Additional things to consider to further elevate your getting ready photos:
Sit by a window if you’re having your hair & makeup done. This will enable me to capture getting ready portraits in the most flattering light. Your hair and makeup artist will likely be in search of the best light in the room to apply your makeup anyhow. Having your makeup done in window light will also help ensure it will look natural once you are outdoors.
Think about what you will be wearing before you put on your dress or wedding attire! I will be capturing portraits of you before you put on your wedding attire, so consider opting for a nice casual outfit, robe, nightgown, or pajama set rather than sweatpants and a neon-colored graphic tee. You’ll be just as comfortable but it’ll bring that extra something special to your getting ready portraits.
Consider including details that are important to the two of you or that help illustrate the story of your wedding day in a way that is outside of the norm. Perhaps a postcard from the location you are saying your vows, extra loose flower stems from your florist, a special ring box or jewelry case, the bottle of perfume or cologne you’ve chosen to wear on your day, and a nice hanger for your dress or wedding attire.
Tips on how to have the best getting ready + detail photos
There are a couple of factors that go into determining this. How many people will be present? Are there any specific moments that you’d like to make sure are included like, facetiming your mom, a first look with your dad, or making breakfast with your partner? Generally two hours is enough time for most, enabling me to fully capture the details you put so much time and thought into as well as the getting ready finishing touches that will help tell the full story of your day.
How much time do I need for getting ready photos?
—Declutter your space.
—Tuck all clothing, suitcases, and miscellaneous items away.
—Collect all details you’d like to have photographed.
—Create a calm atmosphere with music, candles or incense, and window light.
—Relax with a warm cup of tea, coffee, hot coco, or a mimosa.
—Enjoy these precious first moments of your wedding day.
Your Getting Ready Checklist
Your first look is the moment you see your partner for the first time on your wedding day, all done up and looking incredible. If it hasn’t felt like your wedding day is really here and happening up until this point, it will now. First looks are often emotional at first, followed by a stream of pure excitement and joy. Your first look is typically when any nerves and stress begin to fall away too. You realize you’re right where you're supposed to be, standing before the person that makes you feel the most comfortable in this world, about to have one of your best experiences yet together.
First Look
First of all, what's a First Look?
Traditionally, at big weddings the couple does not see one another until they are walking down the aisle during their ceremony in the afternoon after so much of their wedding day has already flown by. But you’re here because you’ve chosen to throw tradition to the wind—so having a first look is your opportunity to see your partner for the first time in their wedding attire! It allows you to see your partner earlier in the day so you can spend as much time as possible together, even if you want to get ready separately. It’s a moment where you can fully be present without distraction. It doesn’t make your ceremony any less emotional or special. In fact, most often couples feel infinitely less nervous and more excited once they have had their first look to themselves. When it comes to eloping, choosing to have a first look also opens up a vast amount of possibilities when it comes to the rest of your day’s untraditional timeline.
Why have a First Look?
Some couples choose to have their first look at their getting ready location, maybe in the front or back yard, out on a spacious deck, a stylized room indoors, or in any scenic corner of the property. Don’t forget to consider this when you’re booking lodging! The benefit of doing your first look right at the getting ready location is that you’ll be able to diminish any nerves right from the start, spend the maximum amount of time with your partner, and enjoy the journey to your next location together.
Other couples will choose to travel separately to their first portrait location or trailhead and do a first look there. You can have a friend or family member drive you, take two cars, or even ride in the same car with one partner in the backseat (if you promise not to peek!).
If you are doing a hiking elopement, many couples will hike up to their destination in normal hiking attire, change into their wedding attire once they reach their destination, and then have their first look there. This is also a great option for sunrise elopements if it has been dark outside up until this point.
I’m always here for you and happy to help give you guidance on the perfect nearby first look location and help make it as epic as possible. I’ll also give you guidance on where to stand and make sure you don’t see one another beforehand.
I love when couples stand there for a moment before the grand reveal, maybe exchanging sweet words as the anticipation builds. Once you’ve turned around to see each other, take it all in. I’ll be capturing both of your reactions, so the only thing you two have to do in this moment is enjoy it.
Where do couples have their First Look?
Planning your Ceremony
When it comes to your ceremony, it’s up to you what traditions you want to honor and which ones you would rather leave behind. Your ceremony can be completely personalized to you, your partner, and the relationship that you’ve built together.
THE LEGAL SIDE OF YOUR CEREMONY
The legal side of getting married depends entirely on where you live and where you elope—so do your research beforehand, familiarize yourself with local laws and regulations, and decide if you want to go through the steps of getting legally married on your actual wedding day or if you’d prefer to do it before, after, or not at all.
Options for getting legally married on your wedding day:
Officiant & Witnesses
Most U.S. States require you to have an officiant and witnesses for your ceremony and sign your license. You can hire a professional officiant, ask a friend or family member that’s attending to get ordained online (if that’s legal in that state), or (lucky you) I’m already ordained, so as long as my ordination from the Universal Life Church (a non-denominational organization) is valid where you want to elope, I’d be happy to sign your paperwork if you let me know in advance. As far as witnesses go, make sure to research the exact regulations for your location, but in most states, anyone over 18 can be a witness. You can ask friends or family members, any of your wedding vendors, or even random hikers on the trail to be witnesses.
Self Solemnize
Some U.S. states like Colorado, Pennsylvania, Wisconsin, and Washington D.C. allow you to self-solemnize–which is a law that grants you and your partner to legally marry each other without any officiant or witnesses.
Courthouse
If you want to get legally married on the same day that you say your vows, you could have your ceremony in a courthouse or simply swing by, do the paperwork, and read your vows in another location on that same day. Research beforehand whether you need an appointment and have all of your required documents gathered, so that it’s not something you need to stress about day-of.
Options for getting married without the legal part on your wedding day:
Commitment Ceremony
Many couples choose to not worry about the legal part of getting married on the day they say their vows. This is called a “commitment ceremony,” “symbolic ceremony,” or “promise ceremony.” It’s essentially getting married without a marriage license. Having a commitment ceremony means your wedding day plans are completely unhindered by rules or legalities and can open the door for more location possibilities and require less people involved. If you choose to have a commitment ceremony, you can still do the paperwork and make it legal on another day, but some couples choose not to do the legal side or aren’t able to get legally married per the law.
Sign Before or After
If you want to get legally married without worrying about an officiant, witnesses, or paperwork on the day you get married, a great option is to go to the courthouse or county clerk and recorder before your trip or after you get back. For some couples, it’s advantageous to get legally married for tax or benefit purposes before the day they read their vows. If you want, you can invite your family or friends to get ordained or be witnesses and make a fun experience out of signing the paperwork back home.
Regardless of how you choose to do the legal side of getting married, there are numerous traditions that you can decide to incorporate on the day you say your vows—or you can skip them all and decide on your own. Here are some ideas of what exactly you can do during your elopement or intimate wedding ceremony:
Read Personalized Vows
Reflect upon your relationship so far, declare any promises that you want to share about your future together, express any emotions that you are feeling, and commit your life to your partner.
Exchange Rings or Another Token
Rings are traditional since they represent an infinity with no beginning and no end, but you could exchange any other symbol that is important to and honors your relationship.
First Kiss & First Dance
Celebrate some exciting firsts in your new married life together with your first kiss as a married couple and your first dance. Incorporate Music Play your favorite song on a portable speaker, have a musician play your favorite tune, or surprise your partner with your musical talent by playing your own instrument or singing an original song.
Sage Smudging
If allowed and safe (please check fire bans and always leave no trace), this ceremony requires a bundle of sage, a way of lighting it, and a bowl. The intention is that you light the sage, which is symbolic for replacing any negative energies with positive, healing ones. You can also use an essential oil sage spray if fire isn’t safe.
Handfasting
This is originally a Celtic pagan ceremony where the hands of you and your partner are bound together by a braided rope, and it both figuratively and literally joins you and your partner. You can also have friends or family members participating in tying cords around your hands.
Unity Ceremony
A unity ceremony consists of joining two parts of something into a singular piece, and it is representative of merging your life together with your partner’s life. Traditionally, this has been done by lighting a unity candle, but you can also combine two different colors of sand or plant a tree together—whatever feels like a unification of you and your partner.
Read Letters
You can ask friends or family members who aren’t physically present on your day to write you a letter for you to read during your ceremony. This is a beautiful way to feel their presence and support. Surprises & Gifts If you have a special surprise or gift for your partner, whether it’s a handmade gift, jewelry, or something else, giving it to your partner during your ceremony can be really special!
Create Space for Those Not Present
As a gesture to a special person or people who could not physically attend your day, you can include a moment of silence during your ceremony or incorporate a memento from them into your wedding day.
What to do During Your Ceremony
Couples Portraits
It’s incredibly common for couples to fear being awkward in front of the camera. Trust me, I hear this from almost everyone I talk to. I want to assure you that letting those worries fall away will be easier than you anticipate. Remember that you’re going to be looking SO GOOD and you will be experiencing so many wonderful emotions on your wedding day—and those feelings of overwhelming joy will shine through to your photos.
This designated portrait time is a great chance for you two to enjoy some slower-paced alone time. My best photos happen when you two actually forget that I’m there and are just wrapped up in each other and the stunning scenery around you. If any “posing” adjustments needs to be made, I will speak up and give you two some gentle directions. I’ll never leave you hanging or wondering what to do.
The more time we have for portraits, the more relaxed you two will feel and the more great portraits I’ll be able to take! The magic typically begins to happen after spending at least 20-30 minutes at a location.
Quick Tips For Looking Great in Your Photos
Trust me! I do this professionally, and we have the same goal in mind. I want your photos to look as incredible as you do (if not more).
You'll find yourself quickly forgetting about any cameras the more you focus on being present with your partner and the beautiful scenery around you. That’s what the day is all about, after all.
If you’re ever unsure what to do with your hands, reach for your partner. You never have to be statutes, movement is good!
Don’t be afraid to interact with one another how you normally would and explore the landscape you are in.
Keep each other smiling. Reminisce over all the amazing stories, adventures, and misadventures that brought you to where you are. Remind your partner how great they look and how much you love them often.
Have fun and enjoy yourself! Happy looks good on you.
Family Portraits
Most often I photograph family portraits immediately after the ceremony while everyone is still in one place and looking great! If you make a list of desired family portrait combinations beforehand, this process can be seamless and relatively quick!
You can anticipate each family portrait combination taking about 3 minutes to complete.
Here’s a short and simple example:
Couple, parents
Couple, parents, siblings
Couple, siblings
Couple, friends
Couple, dogs
Group photo of everyone
Tips for your family portraits:
Have your guests remove all sunglasses and/or transition eyeglasses.
Empty all pockets!
No phones or wallets making your pockets bulky.
Set any purses, bags, or jackets/layers that they don’t want to be photographed in to the side.
Have fun with it! Yes, I will make sure to capture plenty of each group looking at the camera and smiling, but don’t be afraid to get candid after the “serious” photos are captured too. Hugs, laughs, goofy poses, and bunny ears are all welcome!
Portraits
When you are thinking about your elopement timeline, you will also want to consider any other meaningful activities that you might want to incorporate into your day–either to celebrate your relationship or take a moment to reflect upon the commitment that you are making.
Here are a few ideas for some activities that you don’t necessarily need to book ahead of time but might still want to leave space for in your elopement day:
Dedicating time to write in a journal so that you can capture all of the emotions of the day and revisit how you felt on your wedding day in the future.
Reading letters from friends and family members who might not be in attendance during your actual elopement day.
Playing instruments together—whether you are both talented musicians or just started learning together, this can be a special way to spend time together and communicate your joy through music.
Creating something together, like painting a blank canvas together, throwing some pottery, making your own rings, or blending your own wedding-day wine. This will also give you a unique memento from your special day unlike any other.
Spending some time taking a nearby walk or hike to really be present, take in your surroundings, and commit them to memory.
Taking a trip to the local tattoo parlor to get matching tattoos in celebration of your new marriage.
Planting trees, flowers, or other foliage (but only in places where it is appropriate to do so!) to represent rooting yourself in your relationship and being ready to grow together.
Playing a game—from video games to board games to backyard games, there are so many options, and this is a great activity to include some guests while also having a lot of fun.
When budgeting time in your day for activities, I recommend leaving some extra space so that you don’t feel rushed to “perform” an activity in a short amount of time—but rather have time to relax and enjoy it. Also remember that some activities can take a while to set up, so leave space for travel and those transitions when planning out activities.
Activities
You’ve already made the brave choice to elope or have a smaller wedding to throw tradition to the wind, and get married in a way that truly reflects who you are together. So it’s not a surprise that your timeline will look a little untraditional too. While at some point in the day you will have your ceremony where you commit your lives to one another—the journey to that moment and how you choose to celebrate afterwards can truly look a million different ways. Use these timeline examples as a jumping off point and to spark your imagination. Anything is possible.
2-Day 2-Person Elopement
This option is perfect for those that love activities and want to include a multitude of different types of scenery in their day. Spend your first day road tripping someplace new, stopping for short hikes and amazing view points along the way. Then use your second day for a fun activity like a helicopter flight into the wilderness, sailing from one island to another, off-roading in the desert, or a day at a vineyard blending your own bottles of wine. There is plenty of room for spontaneity too so feel free to relax while soaking up a beautiful view.
Day 1 - Guests: 0 (Just you two)
5:30 am – Meet at location one & set up for first look
6:00 am – Sunrise first look in location one followed by portraits
7:00 am – Head to location two (15 min drive)
7:15 am – Arrive at the trailhead, gear up
7:30 am – Begin hike, taking portraits along the way (2.0 mile hike in) 9:30 am – Arrive at alpine lake for ceremony & picnic brunch
12:00 pm – Hike back to the trailhead, taking portraits along the way (2.0 mile hike out)
1:30 pm – Arrive at the trailhead, head to location three (45 min drive)
2:15 pm – Arrive at location three for exploring & kayaking
5:30 pm – Return kayaks, photo coverage wraps up
Day 2 - Guests: 0 (Just you two)
6:00 am – Meet at helicopter pad to check in
6:30 am – Helicopter take off, flight one
7:00 am – Land at location one for portraits
8:00 am – Take off, flight two
8:30 am – Land at location two for portraits
9:30 am – Take off, flight three
10:00 am – Arrive back at the helicopter pad, photo coverage ends
2-Day Elopement/Intimate Wedding with Family
So you are dreaming of an adventure for just the two of you but really want your loved ones to be there to celebrate for part of it too? This timeline example is for you! You get the best of both worlds without feeling rushed or overwhelmed by a jam-packed day. Have an intimate ceremony surrounded by your loved ones and celebrate with a delicious meal, then spend your second day doing something a little more adventurous, just the two of you.
Day 1 - Guests: 25
2:45 pm – Meet at ceremony location & set up for first look
3:15 pm – First look followed by capturing details 4:00 pm – Family arrives & set up for ceremony
4:30 pm – Ceremony begins
5:15 pm – Ceremony wraps up, pop champagne to celebrate
5:45 pm – Family photos
6:30 pm – Family photos wrap up & family heads into town
6:45 pm – Exploring & portraits with just the couple
7:45 pm – Sunset, head to restaurant (1 hour drive)
8:45 pm – Arrive at restaurant & meet family for dinner, toasts, and cake
10:45 pm – Photo coverage wraps up
Day 2 - Guests: 0 (Just you two)
3:30 am – Meet at trailhead, begin hiking up trail in the dark (2.5 mile hike in)
6:00 am – Arrive at summit, change into wedding attire
6:30 am – Sunrise portraits & exploring
8:30 am – Begin hike back down, portraits along the way (2.5 mile hike out)
11:30 am – Arrive back at the trailhead, photo coverage ends
All-Day 2-Person Elopement
This is just enough time to tell the story of your incredible elopement day. Enough time to capture getting ready photos, your adventure to you ceremony location, portraits, and a celebration of your elopement together. You can choose to tackle climbing a mountain together, have a relaxing day spent by the sea, or anything in between.
9:30 am – Photographer arrives at cabin to capture details & finishing touches
10:45 am – First look outside cabin
11:00 am – Head to ceremony location, stop along the way for photos with VW van
2:30 pm – Arrive at location; ceremony followed by exploring & portraits
5:00 pm – Head back to cabin (30 min drive)
5:30 pm – Arrive back at the cabin for private chef dinner overlooking the water
7:30 pm – Photo coverage wraps up
All-Day Intimate Wedding
Your intimate wedding day with loved ones can include an adventure for just the two of you as well! Start your day with a hike above the clouds at sunrise or a morning paddleboarding session before reuniting with your family for a ceremony and delicious meal together. Or opt for an off-roading adventure ending in expansive views, easily accessible for everyone to explore together, and then have your ceremony and picnic right there! The possibilities are endless.
3:00 am – Meet at the trailhead, gear up
3:15 am – Begin hike in the dark (2.1 miles)
4:45 am – Arrive at first look location, alpenglow begins, change into wedding attire
5:30 am – Sunrise first look followed by portraits & exploring
8:00 am – Begin hike back to trailhead, portraits along the way (2.1 miles)
9:30 am – Arrive back at trailhead, head to Airbnb (30 min drive)
10:00 am – Arrive at Airbnb for ceremony
10:30 am – Ceremony
11:00 am – Family photos
11:30 pm – Brunch party with champagne popping & Bloody Marys
1:00 pm – Photo coverage ends
No matter how you choose to structure your elopement day keep in mind these couple of tips: Leave room for spontaneity. You ditched the big traditional wedding so you wouldn’t feel rushed and stressed, so don’t allow those feelings to creep into your elopement day either. Give yourself lots of extra cushion in your day for transitions, spontaneous adventure, and for if you end up running a bit behind at some point. Worst case scenario? You end up with extra time to spend soaking up a gorgeous view.
Be uniquely you. Consider carving out time in your day to enjoy an experience together that may be a bit unusual for a wedding day but is important to and uniquely you. Is your favorite way to spend a morning making french toast and hanging with your doggos? Do it! Love to play an instrument and want to surprise your partner with a song? Go for it!
